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New, nervous, and confused
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Hello, Kimber. I am in a similar situation as you. My desire to do this started a couple years ago by just trying on a pair of panties, and was shocked as to how hard the hook set. This last spring, I started buying panties, corsets, bras, breast forms, and boots. I am 54, married with no kids. In my case, I have no doubt if my wife ever found out, my marriage would be over. I was able to gauge her reaction by tuning in to Rupaul's drag race one evening for a few minutes, joking "look, drag racing" as if it were the quarter mile car races (I'm a gear head and love the NHRA races). Her comments made it quite clear, not hateful, but would never understand. We love each other very much, so I keep myself closeted, either when she is working, or when I work out of town, and never involve anyone else. No matter what, I will never cheat on her. The only guilt I have felt, so far, is hiding this from my wife. There is nothing wrong with what we do. The only label I have ever given myself is "me", and where that ends up is anybody's guess. The desire to dress comes and goes, but seems to never fully leave. I enjoy both sides of me. I love being a guy pulling wrenches on my trucks, but also enjoy dressing up on occasion. Ironically, I feel it has made me a better man. The one person I can never tell even mentioned that I seem more relaxed recently. I am better able to empathize with women. You are not alone. Live your life the best you can.
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New, nervous, and confused - by Kimber - 02-15-2021, 07:32 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by CanuckGirl - 02-15-2021, 08:26 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Kimber - 02-15-2021, 08:40 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by CanuckGirl - 02-15-2021, 09:48 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by boots66 - 02-16-2021, 04:57 AM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Tami - 02-16-2021, 01:10 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Kimber - 02-16-2021, 08:02 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Bernice - 02-16-2021, 10:29 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by JodieLynne - 02-17-2021, 03:23 AM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Kimber - 02-17-2021, 08:25 AM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Kimber - 02-24-2021, 11:16 AM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by CanuckGirl - 02-24-2021, 05:28 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by Kimber - 03-02-2021, 09:57 PM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by curvimarci - 03-06-2021, 12:42 AM
RE: New, nervous, and confused - by CanuckGirl - 03-06-2021, 04:49 PM

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